Saturday, July 6, 2013

Life continues, that's for sure.

It's funny how life works - so not how you plan it.  See, with this pregnancy I had a good bit of nesting going on.  So our place was clean before Benjamin was born.  There'd be no extra housework to be done after his birth.  BUT we happened to bring one bed bug home with us from either the hospital or the taxi...which meant 30+ loads of laundry to do before the exterminators came in.

Like I said, not at all what I had planned.  Thank the Lord for my mom's presence and all her time spent in the laundry room.  Thank the Lord for our living in an apartment building so we had multiple washers and dryers available to us.  Thank the Lord that we don't have to pay for the exterminators.  And, while I absolutely hate the one, thank the Lord there was only one bed bug.


When I look back on the last 2 weeks, it's so easy for me to be negative about the time lost during my mom's visit and during Benjamin's first few weeks, and how much work had to be done because of one stupid bug. But last night I spent an hour putting pictures on our computer and I realized how much fun we've had since my mom and my dad AND OF COURSE BENJAMIN arrived!


We've all fallen in love with our little man.  He loves looking towards light, whether it be from a lamp we leave on in the middle of the night so he'll be calm and we can sleep or whether it's just coming through the window.  His first nickname is the King of Poop - this man is going through lots of diapers.  He is a charmer - smiles so regularly that we're convinced they can't all be from gas.  He is such a good eater that he was only 68 grams away from his birth weight at 4 days old.  Since he eats well, he's already getting big!


His big sister goes in and out with her interest in him.  She likes to read books to him and tell people his name and sometimes even share her most precious possession (her napping blanket).


Benjamin has already found his thumb (only took him 3 days to do so).  This does not thrill his parents, despite their love for his thumb-sucking sister, but it is cute.  Still, we are doing soother research!


We've used our new "mini-van" multiple times, a necessity when you have 2 kids in the city.


We gave Helena her own baby carrier, and it's been getting some good use...

 

...sometimes with a doll and other times with a crayfish.  My mom brought this twenty-nine cent toy from the south in order to show us how they ate them.  She had no idea it would be Helena's best bud for a week.


Benjamin is our little pod, sleeping all zipped up in his Swaddlepod.

 

 The bed bug-related work was mostly done by the time Papa arrived, so there was lots of time for fun and naps.


My dad loves little kids' feet.  He's always checking them to make sure there are no calluses yet.


I love every body part on my kids - big surprise, huh?  I'm so glad we can take pictures and videos but I wish there was a way to keep the little lip kisses, the softness of Benjamin's skin, his wonderful smell, and the snuggles we get from him.


A few hours after we put my parents on the subway for the airport, Helena said "I want Nani to be back."  We had such a wonderful time with you Mom/Nani and Dad/Papa.  Thank you for coming!

4 comments:

Mandy said...

Oh Wow! it sounds like you are loving Benjamin so much. He does sound so wonderful. I can't wait to snuggle him someday! I'm so glad your parents could be there to meet him and have some quality time with Helena. I can't believe you didn't name him Helena though :) was Helena disappointed?

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Charlotte and John said...

Mandy - Helena hasn't seemed too disappointed about Benjamin's name or lack of the name Helena :) She has told people, however, that his name is not Ben but Ben-Ja-Min!

Kay said...

Wonderful Benjamin....
stupid bed bug.
Glad you found things to be grateful for in all that.
Loved all the pics of your family and Benjamin,great name by the way.